Who are you without a choice?

Who are we without choice? Without free will? If your unhappy about your current state of health, relationships, finances, job, lifestyle- guess what?!?


“Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it…. It’s just easier if you do.”

Byron Katie

The greatest gift we have is to take responsibility for everything that’s happening for us and to bring back our power of choice; to respond intentionally, and to allow this to be present in our conscious awareness.

When you realize that you are in the driving seat of your life you have creative control over where you are focusing your energy. You get to choose how to respond, how to react, and how to make your next move forward.

If your life is currently not the way you want it to be, it simply means you have dropped your standards and boundaries with authenticity. When we’re living in alignment to our truth, we tend to make choices that are responding from our heart, instead of reacting by default from our lack-based perceptions.

From a heart-based approach, we choose a life that is intentionally focused around what we want, rather than our focus being watered down with sloppy attention- fixated only on what we don’t want.

How long do you want to hold onto these stories?

How much longer are you willing to feel kinda shitty and put off feeling better until the never-ending Monday eventually comes!

“I’m going to stop putting things off starting tomorrow.” 💬 sound a little familiar?

How many more doctors appointments and prescriptions do you want to fill to make it through another day without pain, or to ease the anxiety or manage the depression?

You can make that shift now by taking one step towards aligned action.

We’re often not compelled to make that choice until we hit rock bottom.

Why is that?

Do we need to be put through the wringer before choosing to be more loving and compassionate towards ourselves?

Why not sit your arse down now and take inventory on:

➡️What is working in your life and what is not.

➡️What is healthy to continue doing and what is not sustainable to maintain?

➡️What will happen if you keep living the same old story and keep putting off the things you want in life for another rainy day…for another Monday to roll on by?

💥It takes RESPONSIBILITY to show up for yourself and make a change.

💥It takes EMPOWERMENT to own it and fully step into inspired action.

💥It takes TRUST in yourself and others to allow the change to shift your current mindset and lifestyle.

💥It takes SUPPORT to sustain it- asking for help from others to assist in holding you accountable to being your best you AND not letting you settle for an average, ordinary existence. It’s not a walk in the park, but the rewards are so damn worth it!


🔘Are you ready to experience the life that you deserve?

🔘Are you ready to start showing up for yourself with courage?

🔘Are you ready to step into your potential and become who you want to be?

If you want to live more in your essence and radiance, do what you can now to make that shift. 👊🏻🙌🏻✨

Love, Lola

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